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TOUR TALES CHAPTERS 19-23

CHAPTER 19: Scottsdale, Arizona

 

When we arrived at the Scottsdale Bible Church, our orchestra was practicing in the sanctuary.  The concert tomorrow would have some special additions dedicated to our sister-in-law Frances McMurrin who died of cancer in May. The McMurrin family is spread across the United States, but the daughter of Lee and Frances McMurrin, Marianne Bursi, lives in Scottsdale, and she was hosting a family gathering and a memorial service preceding the concert.

                                               

Added to the program would be “How Lovely Is Thy Dwelling Place” from the Brahms Requiem, the spiritual “Give Me Jesus,” and “What a Friend We Have in Jesus,” arranged by Harold Best in a New Orleans style.

 

Our first evening was with our hosts, however. Wow! Two nights in a row, without a concert. We shared our time between our hosts Chris and Carol Nahm, faithful supporters of our mission, and the McMurrin family at Marianne’s house.  Roger also did an hour that evening at the choir rehearsal of the Scottsdale Bible Church choir. It is what he used to do for many years, while he was director of music in American churches.

 

The next morning Carol Nahm and I had a great time going to a discount mall called Arizona Mills. There we found a Chico’s outlet that had some terrific buys. I really can’t shop much, because I’m so limited in space in our trunk to haul around my belongings. But I did buy a few things, that gave me a real lift emotionally. Nothing like a new outfit  to make you feel younger and more energetic.

 

At 3 pm Roger and I attended the memorial service at the home of our niece. It was wonderful to be together with family, something so rare in our missionary lives.  And as I meditated on how fragile life is, and how precious family relationships are, it occurred to me that we need to appreciate the beauty God gives us every day, in nature, in friends, in health, and in the awareness of God with us.  How blessed we are to belong to God and trust everything to Him!

 

The concert that evening at Scottsdale was again wonderful. The large sanctuary was full of excited listeners, and the variety of entertainment kept them enthralled.  The home-stays of our Ukrainians were so much fun, and the Americans would have kept them longer than two days if they could.

 

At the Scottsdale concert, so many hosts came to me to say how much they enjoyed their Ukrainians, and they wished they could stay longer.  Then at the end of the concert, 

Brenda handed me a letter that warmed my heart. It was from San Clemente:

 

“Bob and I want to let you know what a blessing the concert weekend was for all of us. Our two Ukrainian guests were a delight to have in our home. We feel richer for having had them here. Before this weekend, the Kiev outreach program seemed distant. Worthy, yes, but distant.

 

“No longer, for now we have seen and heard and touched and thus can feel attached in a more concrete way to their mission. How grateful we are for that.

 

“Svetlana and Larisa are cellists…full of energy and zest for all that’s new. Because of their enthusiasm, we were able to fill each and every moment with love and laughter.

 

The music will ring in our hearts and minds from this day forward. Our hopes and prayers will be with them as they carry out this mission of move to places near and far.”

 

Also enclosed was a note from Carter Clark, husband of Diane, who managed the San Clemente concert arrangements. He said, “Diane has already received 25 hand scripted thank you’s and a similar number of e-mail notes passing raves to her about the KSOC Tour and her efforts to bring it to St. Andrews.”

 

So with that I put aside my feelings of worry. There may be a couple of bumps in the road, but this tour is making Americans happy, Ukrainians happy, and we continue on in faith.

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 CHAPTER 20: Mesa, Arizona

 

On the way to Mesa, the choir and orchestra stopped at Explorer Middle School in Paradise Valley to give a program.  This was the best student audience we have ever had. The students had been prepared with background on the country of Ukraine, the history of the choir and orchestra, and how to behave in a concert.  Certain questions like, “When do you know it is time to applaud?” were asked and answered by the student leaders and teachers. “We know it is time to applaud when the conductor puts down his baton.”

 

Of course, the incredible leader in this school is its principal, Marianne Bursi, my niece, and daughter of Roger’s brother Lee McMurrin, who was a school superintendent and insightful leader in education. Lee is now retired and lives in Bend, Oregon. Lee, Roger’s sister Norma, and other members of the family were present at the school concert.

 

After the concert, each member of the choir and orchestra were given their bag lunches in decorated sacks with ribbons, and a home-made bookmark made by one of the children.

 

Marianne says that there are two rules at her school: (1) Do what is expected of you and do it the best you can, and (2) do not interfere with someone else’s learning.

 

Roger slept in the car, as BJ and I drove to the Love of Christ Lutheran Church in Mesa, where we would be giving an evening concert. We would be staying in the home of Dick and Mary Beckman. Dick is the treasurer of the Music Mission Kiev board. The two of them did all the work to bring the KSOC to Mesa for two nights of concerts at their church.

 

Wes Jansen, Canadian guest conductor of the KSOC, had joined us for a few days in the Phoenix area.  As Roger and I arrived at the concert that evening, Wes was already busy working, collecting the cards for the drawing in the aisles from the audience.  “I want to help in whatever way possible,” Wes had said, when he told me by phone that he would again visit the tour.

 

The church was small, but the one large room accommodated the choir and orchestra, the audience, and the sales tables. Therefore, we got to hear the entire concert by sitting in the room.

 

Several of the singers have been sick with a virus, and two are on anti-biotics for bronchitis.

 

Two other board members from Waco, Texas, Bob and Frances Neil traveled to Arizona to hear the KSOC in concert. No distance is too far for them to be with their Ukrainian friends. They have often come to Kiev, and feel very much a part of the Mission.

 

Saturday was a free day, at least until it was time to report to church for the evening concert. I concentrated on laundry. Brenda went shopping. Some of the musicians went to a music store. But it was rest…… that revives us.  Two nights here in Mesa, followed by two Sunday morning worship services.

 

Several of our vocalists are sick with common colds or bronchitis. One lady had diarrhea and would not take any American medicine like Immodium.  She insisted on her Ukrainian remedy – charcoal powder that you swallow. The medicine was in the Ukrainian first aid kit on the bus, but only Helen Sedikh, bus captain, knew where it was. When we called Helen, who was supposed to be sick, as she had missed two concerts, she was shopping at the mall, and the host was supposed to pick her up at 5 p.m.  Hmm! Too sick to sing, but not too sick to shop!

 

At the concert that night, a man came up to me and said, “Genius! Genius!  These musicians are remarkable.” Yes, we are winning many friends through music.

 

Our hosts gave a little party for some of our friends who attended tonight’s concert. There was brother Lee, his daughter Marianne, and her son Nicolas. Also Wes Janzen, our Canadian guest conductor. Meeting at the Beckman’s home was a lot better than taking a caravan to search for a restaurant open for pie and ice cream, as we had done in Seattle.

                                    

The next morning the KSOC participated in two worship services at the Love of Christ Lutheran church.  There was a thank you letter to the Ukrainians printed in Cyrillic in the bulletin so that each could read it. It read:

 

“Dear Roger and Kyiv Orchestra and Chorus,

 

“Thank you for blessing us with your wonderful music and friendship. We are grateful for this time together. May the risen Christ bless each of you! As your brothers and sisters in Christ, we pray that He will watch over you and your families each day. We pray for the precious and beautiful people of Ukraine and the challenges of your people. Please pray for us. We love you as Christ loves us and will remember this Holy time together.

 

“In the Name of the risen Christ!

Pastor Don Thompson and the people of Love of Christ Lutheran Church”

 

At the end of the service, the pastor and congregation stood and faced the choir. Each American raised his right hand and pronounced the benediction to the choir, as led by the pastor. It was a beautiful moment.

 

Roger did not conduct the second service. He had gone home to rest, as we had an evening concert in Prescott with a two-hour drive ahead of us that afternoon. He did not know that his sister Norma, her husband Don, and daughter Diane had arrived to attend worship and to see him. But I sat with them in the worship, and we enjoyed being together.

 

When BJ and I arrived back at the host home with the car, Roger was still sleeping. I quietly gathered all the luggage and packed the car. Then Roger began to awaken and asked for 30 more minutes of rest before we began our journey. So BJ and I ate our sack lunches in the Beckman’s living room while we watched the Sunday news programs.

 

Finally Roger felt ready to travel, so he climbed into the back seat with his pillows, and found a temporary bed there. I navigated our way through Phoenix as BJ drove to the higher elevation of Prescott, Arizona. 

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CHAPTER 21: Prescott, Arizona

 

To pronounce the name of this city, you must say “Press-kitt” not “Press-cott.” It rhymes with “biscuit.”  I learned that on our first visit here in the year 2000. At that time I thought it was the ideal place to live. The air is so clean and the temperature “just right.” The scenery of the surrounding mountains is breath taking and the vegetation is lush, with many kinds of trees. Also it is quiet, very quiet, and very little traffic. It still is a thrill to sit on a porch and relax, which is where I am writing this chapter.

 

We arrived at the Yavapai Community College, where we would give the concert. Don and Jade Riley were the organizers of this venue and also our hosts. Jade took us home so that Roger could rest some more. ‘Did he really need this much rest?’ I thought. But Roger slept another hour, as Jade prepared a fabulous meal for the two of us. ‘I wonder what the group is eating?’ I thought, as I helped myself to fresh asparagus, steak and mushrooms.

 

We arrived at the concert, fifteen minutes before the downbeat. The hall reminded me of a professional theater, with a large lobby and even a coffee bar. Indeed they did host concerts of visiting artists, and there were posters for a ballet of Romeo and Juliet later this month. They also took 20% of our profits on our sales.  But that is expected in such halls.

                                               

Brenda said that the meal had been excellent, and she was still eating hers at the sales tables after the choir processed in, as she usually does. “I never can eat before a concert,” she says. “I’m too excited.”

 

Because of the faltering American economy and the large inventory we still had in the truck, we reduced the prices on some of our merchandise. Some things on the souvenir table were selling for half-price.  People just were not buying very much.

 

As I went up to the stage to do the commercial at the end of the second half, I decided to change my opening statement. “Did you hear, ‘There’s snow in the Rockies’…. ‘And there’s a nip in the air tonight’…. And you know what that means?”  Roger looked completely baffled.  “Christmas will soon be here,” I said. We started bantering about Christmas, and acted a little crazy.

 

During intermission, as I was signing books, a young girl in her 20’s came to me. “Do you know who George Burns is?” she asked me. “Yes….” I said.  “And Gracie Allen?” her eyes looked expectant.  “Yes..” I replied.  “Well,” she said, “you two remind me of them.” 

 

I looked at her, wondering how she could hear of such people from my generation, not hers.  “Am I George or am I Gracie?” I asked her. And we all laughed.

 

In spite of the fact that our people were tired, they gave a terrific concert. The audience loved it!

 

Afterwards, the housing assignments were a little bit chaotic, as Americans had numbers, which they held in their hands, but they were scattered in the hall, not in numerical order. So some Ukrainians went home with the wrong people, out of weariness. But finally everyone was in a home.  Brenda Tompkins was with us at the Riley’s.

 

The next day the bus was ready at 7:45 am to take an excursion to Grand Canyon. It would be a three-and-a-half hour trip one-way. I loved this excursion but I decided not to go. I was just so tired. I stayed in my pajamas until 2 pm.  There were Ukrainians who were tired too, and some stayed home with their hosts.  Roger went of course. “I just can’t wait to see their faces when they first see the Grand Canyon,” he said. “It’s the best sight in the world.” I think he meant their faces, not the Canyon.

 

About 125 people went to the Grand Canyon with Roger. Since the Park charges $300 per bus to enter the tourist area, The 125 people crowded into two 56-passenger buses, thereby saving us some money.  Bill, the bus driver, let our people out and would meet them at another checkpoint which he was told was a 20-minute walk along the edge of the Canyon. What the Ukrainians and Roger did not realize was that it was an hour and 20-minute walk in the hot sun.  But the Ukrainians were so enthralled with this wonder of the world that they did not complain, even though it made them an hour late for dinner at their host home.

 

Two Ukrainians Victor and Ludmila Dribney came to our host home that night.  Ludmila was suffering from a cold, and they had been housed in a garage the night before, so Don gave up his bed for them, and they moved in. They were very grateful as we sat around the dining room table feasting on salmon, rice, salad, green beans, dinner rolls, and pumpkin pie.

 

The next day I was ready for an adventure. The group traveled by bus to Sedona, a city north of Prescott, that had beautiful red cliffs, spattered with green bushes. The overall effect was enchanting. We wandered the town with its charming little shops. Roger bought maple walnut fudge, cut it into little pieces, and offered it to the musicians as they came back to the bus. Some loved it. Others said it was too sweet.  One of the new tour members bought Roger a present, a key ring with Roger’s name on it. “This is the first present from an orchestra member I have ever had,” said Roger, thanking him.

 

We arrived at the college right on time, at 4 pm, and our hosts were there waiting for us. Don and Jade had picked up some more musicians, whose host had to go out of town, etc. and so we had thirteen people for dinner including Marcia and BJ. 

 

The Americans wanted to watch the Presidential Debate, and the Ukrainians patiently waited or sent e-mails on the computer. The DOW had dropped another 500 points today, and that made everyone sad, especially Jade who works as a stockbroker.

 

On Wednesday morning, we woke up at 5:30 am, and the Riley’s with the help of the their two mini-vans, transported Roger, Brenda, Victor, Ludmila, and me to the college to meet the buses.

 

The Ukrainians were having trouble getting all the suitcases into the baggage area of the buses.  Evidently many of the musicians don’t want to ship home their extra weight that they have purchased.  This was the case in our first tours, and some of our people are new. They may be afraid that they won’t get everything from customs. They also may not want to wait until Christmas until they see their treasures again. But we are trying to tell them that the airlines will charge them lots of money to take extra weight on the plane.  Vika said she would find out the baggage limit for Delta international travel – either 50 pounds or 70 pounds for each suitcase.

 

BJ got behind the steering wheel, and I sat down beside her with the map. Roger slid into the back seat and said, “What’s all this?”  He was referring to the extra little bags and things which we had accumulated.

 

“The trunk is full,” I said. Roger insisted that he could find more room in the trunk, which he did, by taking everything out and putting things in again.

 

One lady came to the car, and said that she wanted to adopt a widow with Music Mission Kiev. “Thank you for bringing the Ukrainians,” said another lady. “They were delightful.” 

 

There were some tears as Ukrainians parted from Americans. In three days, they had become like family, even though they can’t speak each other’s language.  How does this happen? It’s a mystery!

 

We drove off into the brilliant rising sun.  We were entering the “home stretch” of the tour.  In the next 11 days, we would present 10 concerts, and the first two were long drives as well.  So we began our journey through beautiful hills, flatlands, and painted desert, toward the great city of Albuquerque, New Mexico.

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CHAPTER 22: Albuquerque, New Mexico

 

The lady in charge of the Albuquerque concert is Connie Atkinson, sister of Dan Bird, who is the Director of Music at Solana Beach, CA, where we had performed. Connie really rescued us by taking on this responsibility. As we were caught between Prescott and Colorado Springs, with no concert and no housing, until she “stepped up to bat” to help us.

 

The first thing we did when we arrived was to meet our hostess Linda Beth Stewart, and Roger and I followed her through commercial streets and up the mountain to her house in a quiet neighborhood.  Roger immediately took his nap while I wrote on the computer. Roger needs this rest every day, and it is keeping him going.  But when I woke him at 5:45 p.m. he was not ready to get up. “Give me another 30 minutes,” he said. 

 

How about 15?” I replied. “We have to get to the church in time and it is about 25 minutes to drive there.”

 

I asked Linda Beth to make some coffee, and we visited in the kitchen while it brewed. I did my make-up and hair in a separate bathroom so I would not disturb Roger.  When I took him his coffee 15 minutes later, he was already up and getting dressed.  We left about 6:20 for the 7 p.m. concert. 

 

The crowd that night was not only from the Sandia Baptist Church that was hosting us, but from many churches in the community as well, including Hoffmantown Baptist which had hosted the group in 2000.  Also there were many people hearing us for the first time.

 

When I went up for the commercial at the end of the first half, I mentioned, “We want to offer you some great specials at the sales tables tonight. We know what the stock market is doing.”  The audience laughed. It surprised me.  We went on to explain the different items and the sale prices.  The intermission was very busy with servicing customers. Kostya’s inventory of matrushka dolls is down to 35.

 

Young at Heart AlbuquerqueThe musicians gave an outstanding performance tonight with such energy and enthusiasm. The fact that they have most of the music memorized by now really helps too.

 

Roger drove back to our host home, but we got lost in the last few streets. I had had a map, but I couldn’t find it. “Maybe you are sitting on it,” said Roger, as I scoured the floor with my fingers. 

 

I gave up looking for the map, and we tried several combinations of the curvy mountain streets.  Finally we found the right combination in the labyrinth.  The next morning I found the map in the driver’s seat. Roger had been sitting on it.

 

As we entered the house, we realized that Linda Beth had two other house guests, ladies from our choir. They were both sick with bad throats. She fixed them tea with honey. Then she offered to do the girls laundry and I threw in a pair of black slacks. American washing machines are so convenient.

 

I was exhausted and excused myself to go to bed. We had left our pillows at the Riley’s in Prescott, so I stuffed my bathrobe into a pillowcase.  Roger and I both use thin pillows, and this worked well.

 

The next morning, the girls left with Linda Beth to meet the buses at 8 am.  Roger was very tired, and though I was hoping that we would get that badly needed oil change on the car, there was no time to stop for it. The earliest we would be back at the church was 9:30.  We would make up time on the road.  BJ was waiting for us when we got there.

 

With the luggage loaded tightly in the trunk, we said goodbye to Connie Atkinson, and we headed for the freeway. To the left of us were one hundred balloons sailing into the bright blue sky. Many colors, several shapes, a spectacular sight. This was the week of balloon flights in Albuquerque. 

 

We headed north toward Santa Fe and the Colorado border.  Next stop, Colorado Springs!

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CHAPTER 23: Colorado Springs, CO.

When we arrived at First United Methodist Church in Colorado Springs, Roger went to find Helen the coordinator.  Roger and I would be staying with Claude and Judy Mary who lived about 30 minutes north of the city. And he needed a place to rest before the concert. Brenda, Marcia, and BJ had rooms at a local hotel, so Brenda told him to rest in her room while the crew set up for the concert at the church.   Helen gave us the address and the confirmation number.

 

After Roger had settled in, and BJ had checked into her room I accompanied BJ to the church to help, and to finish some writing. Soon it was time to go to the basement and have dinner.  When I sat down to eat my soup, which was our dinner, I was surprised that it was really flavorful. There were potatoes, cabbage, vegetables and sausage in the soup. It was delicious! I was perfectly satisfied with that and some healthy salad. I hoped the musicians were, but I heard no complaints.

 

At the sales area, we greeted many people.  I love seeing friends, new and old.  Soon the concert began, with a good crowd in attendance. The acoustics of the sanctuary were excellent, and the crowd loved it!

 

Brenda came to me, apologetically, saying, “I have a problem.” She never does this unless it is serious. “There are 16 men who will be housed in the basement of the church, eight to a room. They will have food for them. But the guys are not happy; in fact, they are upset about it.”

 

My first inclination was to say, “It’s only one night. Tell them to grin and bear it, and they will probably be in a home tomorrow night.” 

 

But when Vika came to me to plead for them, I realized that something must be done. Vika said, “Can you announce that we have some extra guys to take home. Once the audience hears their music, they will want to help.”

 

I know that placing 140 people in homes is a difficult monstrous task, especially to take in strangers. But maybe I could help them see these male musicians as friends who would enrich their lives through a house stay. After all, it was only until 9:00 the next morning.

 

I went in to do the commercial at the end of the first half. Before I could finish the plea for the guys who needed a home that night, Roger took the microphone from me, and presented most of the message. He said that the guys did not want to sleep in the basement. Between the two of us we finished the commercial for the products and for the musicians. 

 

At intermission we were swamped with people who said, “I’ll take two musicians…..I’ll take three…. I already have two but I can take an extra one…..” and in 20 minutes we had more than enough homes.

 

Roger was so happy to hear the news. He had worried all the first half of the concert about this problem.

 

The second half of the concert was going well. I couldn’t hear the music from where I sat in the hall at the side of the sanctuary. I was writing some things for the Tour Tales on a card, when Vika came in, excitedly, “Diane! The drawing! Quick!”

 

“Have they finished “New York, New York?” I asked, as we ran down the hall, together.

 

“Yes,” Vika said. And there I was, entering the hall, with Roger stalling for time, telling a story.

 

“What have you been doing?” Roger asked me, in front of everybody.

 

“I’ve been writing down funny things you said for the Tour Tales,” I told him. It was the truth. During the commercial Roger had said that we had been referred to as George Burns and Gracie Allen.  Then he had said, “So which one is ‘Gracie’ and which one is ‘Allen?’  Well, I thought that was funny.

 

After the concert, everyone had a home and left quickly. It had been a long trip to Colorado Springs, and even though the group was tired, they did a terrific concert. It is amazing how resilient they are when they know they have to go on the stage.

 

The next morning we were to sing at the Air Force Academy Chapel. Since Roger and I were staying near there with the Mary’s, we just met the group at the Air Force Academy. Air Force AcademyIt was a gorgeous day. Sunny, blue sky, moderate temperature.  The buses arrived and the group entered the chapel, which resembles a jet plane inside. The cross at the front is styled like a propeller from a plane. The organist played a number on the organ, and amazed our musicians. Then the KSOC choir members sang four a cappella numbers. In the amazing acoustics, it was so reverent and so beautiful.

 

We lingered awhile outside surrounded by a gorgeous view of mountains and buildings, with the American flag flying proud.

 

Then BJ, Roger and I got into the car. This would be the last drive for BJ. We were headed for Fort Collins, Colorado, for a three-day stay.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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